Homo Erectus

For more information on the actual definition see here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homo_erectus

Today, I'd like to speak to the twisted underbelly of sexual control games known as BDSM. There is a lot of free pornography on the Web that depicts this graphic use of physical control by one or more individuals over one or more other individuals. But, without delving into the situation too far, I'd like to mention that my awakened reality of this 'perception' is relatively limited in my life. For this I thank God.

I have two instances where I have had minor BDSM episodes enter into my physical world -- both without my consent or prior discussion -- which makes them illegal.

The first is when I was put in chains and molested in front of a video camera for the ever-expanding collection of pornographic libraries of the Blockheads. I understand that the man who performed this action was under financial duress, thus, making him an easy pawn for the Blockheads to manipulate. As the actual events of the session are mostly unknown to me, as I was drugged, I will leave it in the hands of our most capable Law Enforcement to run it all up the flagpole.

The second experience was in a gray area. I was with a man I trusted who thought I needed to be choked for the experience to heighten my sexual arousal. This is known as erotic asphyxiation. There have been some high-profile cases of this in the media throughout the last decade. But, the important thing to remember here is that the end game is attempted murder...murder...or suicide...depending on the number of individuals involved.

Now, let me be clear. If an individual wants to participate in this "sexual play" that is that individual's business. I personally prefer to keep my physical activity balanced and light. Pillow-fights, tickling, wax-play, ice-play, as many positions as I want in a session, until I have no option but to sleep, are my preference. But, that's me.

I also would like the BDSM audience to consider several articles regarding the psychology of this particular form of 'role-play':

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-everybody-else/201307/bdsm-personality-and-mental-health

http://www.ejhs.org/volume15/BDSM.html

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM_and_the_law

Personally, I prefer the idea of Comicon:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comic_Con

And awesome, creative Cosplay:

http://www.syfy.com/heroesofcosplay

Have fun with your dress-up and stay safe.

~AC